Terror management through HIV support groups

“Despite H.I.V., Fighting to Maintain Health and a Positive Attitude” (http://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/18/nyregion/18divas.html?scp=9&sq=self-esteem&st=cse) describes support groups organized through Iris House, a women-centered AIDS service center in Harlem, NY. The aim of the group is to keep the women’s self-esteem up despite their affliction. Ingrid Floyd, executive director of Iris House, notes that many clients she sees have battled domestic violence and drug addiction, claiming that low self-esteem has put obstacles in their paths. Women in the group say it “has helped them talk openly and honestly about sex for the first time in their lives. They not only look back on how they were infected, but also discuss expectations for future relationships.” They look back not only on their past partners, but also possibilities for future relationships. Death is inevitable for these women, which makes terror management theory very relevant. The theory suggests that people defend their worldviews and thereby keep their self-esteem high in order to stave off thoughts about death. Women use these support groups in a similar fashion, that is to not think about death.